You know, for all I know this DOES smell like patchouli and I just can't tell the difference! I like the Milk Moon better. Do people ever "rate" scents (like, on a scale of 1-10 or something?) I think I'd call Milk Moon a 9 and Lust a 7.75, maybe. I've made Mr WG smell both and he just kind of shrugs like they smell okay to him but what does he know. And then, him being a guy, he asked if the fact that tonight's was called Lust "meant anything." LOL!